Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Passover

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Passover

What makes a leader? This is a question that consumes countless books, seminars and leadership training programs in countless Universities and business training models. But it’s worth noting that there are two different types of leaders. One, the more commonly considered, is the type of person who leaps forward under challenging circumstances, who inspires others less bold to follow behind. In fact, I have a vivid memory of hearing just that at the end of the IDF’s Officer training course, from a Commander whom I greatly respected: “The measure of an officer is whether he (or she) can become the man whom others will follow, anywhere…” And yet, there is a second type of leader who accomplishes much more than having others follow behind; he or she inspires others to leap ahead. Such leaders do not lead; they inspire… Such a person was Cantor (Chazzan) Sherwood Goffin, who first taught me to read from the Torah and whose beautiful Shabbat tunes and guitar playing...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Purim

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Purim

Grabbing the Moment  A few years ago, I was privileged to share in a magnificent experience the South African Jewish Community has labelled Sinai Indaba. Five thousand Jews came together in the city of Johannesburg to share and study Torah and there are no words to describe the passion, excitement, warmth and the inspiration we all shared for 24 magnificent hours. One of the speakers, Charlie Harari, shared an idea that really got me thinking:   This coming week we will read the book of Esther and celebrate Purim. It’s interesting that we call the story of Purim the book of Esther, because Esther is a pretty unlikely heroine, to say the least; if there was ever a person not in control of her life, it was Esther. At the start of the book (really the Scroll) of Esther, she seems to have absolutely no will of her own; in fact, her name Esther comes from the Hebrew word seter, which means hidden; she...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Purim: Secrets Behind the Purim Mask Purim celebrates the salvation of the Jews from the wicked Haman's scheme to exterminate all the Jewish men, women, and children living in the Persian empire in the year 357 B.C.E., which essentially meant all the Jews in the world. Some of the commandments of Purim, such as hearing Megillat Esther, which recounts the Purim story, and enjoying a festive meal, are obvious ways to commemorate this deliverance. Other commandments and customs have no apparent connection to what happened on Purim. Why are we required to give charity to the poor, send two food items to a friend, and get so drunk that we do not know the difference between Haman, the villain, and Mordechai, the righteous hero of the story? (This last commandment, I understand, is very rigorously kept in college dorms all year round.) What is behind the customs to dress up in costume and to eat hamentaschen, delicious, sweet tarts named literally, "Haman's...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sukkot and Simchat Torah Celebrating Wholeness, Spontaneity and Anticipation Off to a Right Start The holiday of Sukkot reminds us of the huts of the Israelites as they wandered for forty years in the desert after their miraculous Exodus from Egypt . It would stand to reason, then, that Sukkot should be celebrated right after the holiday of Passover. However, the Talmudic sages explain that since Passover is in the spring, living in the sukkah would not be anything special. It is common to be outside during the warm months of the year. After Yom Kippur, however, when it starts to get cold, people generally take shelter inside. We go outside, only because G-d commands us to do so. Leaving our homes precisely when we are not naturally inclined to do so, internalizes one of the important lessons of Sukkot-G-d is our only true shelter, and we must trust in Him. We often transgress the will of G-d, because we mistakenly think we...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Portion of Ha’azinu

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Portion of Ha’azinu

May 4, 2009; Seconds, then minutes; the overturned boat remained upside down in the murky waters of the Yarkon River, trapping the woman who had been energetically rowing moments before; even the air bubbles had ceased…. Incredibly a small crowd of onlookers had gathered along the banks of the narrow river watching and pointing, even exclaiming, yet none seemed willing to brave the waters and attempt to rescue the woman whose life was clearly in danger. It was not a raging river, nor were the waters particularly deep, nor wide; rather it was well known how polluted these waters were and none seemed willing to risk the potential illness that might result from entering the waters, even for such a worthy cause. Finally, nearly four minutes after the woman had capsized, Avi Toibin, a sixty-two-year-old passerby, apparently realizing the stakes and ignoring the danger, jumped in and managed to wrest the woman’s now limp body from beneath the unforgiving waters allowing...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Getting the Forgiveness You Want and Need Yom Kippur is all about love and forgiveness. It's about how we are always inseparably close to G-d. On Yom Kippur we get a glimpse of ourselves, our choices and our relationship to G-d from another perspective--G-d's perspective. This is the transformational power of Yom Kippur that makes it into a Day of Atonement and forgiveness. There is a cryptic verse in the Book of Psalms (139:16), which, the Sages say, refers to Yom Kippur:  The days were formed, and one of them is His. Every day of the year we see the world from our perspective but there is one day --   G-d’s day -- when we get a glimpse of the way the world looks from His perspective and everything changes in light of that perspective. On Yom Kippur we see it all from the perspective of the World to Come where you get to see the whole picture. The Talmud teaches that in this...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Portion of Vayelech

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Portion of Vayelech

Awhile back, I was given a copy of Dr. Hagi ben Artzi’s book on the Six day war (produced by Mizrachi) Megillat Sheshet Hayamim, based on the IDF’s post war reports analyzing the war. It contained the following fascinating story: On June 4 1967, the day before Israel launched the six day war, Abdel Hakim Amer, the Egyptian minister of war, decided a review of the Egyptian troops massed in the Sinai was in order. He invited senior military personal from Cairo to join him on an air tour of the lines along with a visit to senior officers in the Sinai on a special flight scheduled to take off from Cairo at 7am the next morning, June 5. A delegation from the Iraqi army was invited to join as well and they flew in a second plane. To ensure the safety of all these VIP’s flying in a closed military air zone, Amer ordered all his anti-aircraft batteries to stand...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Choose Good, Feel Great Secrets to Living Your Best Life I call heaven and earth to witness against you this day, that I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse: therefore choose life, that you may live, you and your seed ------Deut. 30:19 Goodness that isn't chosen is not complete goodness. If we didn’t choose goodness—if we were just naturally good, or if goodness was the only option available—how could that be the highest expression of goodness? I know a fellow that has dozens of guests over at his home every weekend. When I complimented him on his hospitality, he said, “What are you talking about? It comes naturally to me. It's not a struggle for me. I love to do this!” Is he really choosing goodness? If it comes naturally, is it complete goodness? Goodness that wasn’t chosen is not the greatest good. Only after you struggle with evil and chose goodness will you accomplish true and complete...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Portion of Nitzavim

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Portion of Nitzavim

It was a narrow winding road, barely paved, and I was definitely nervous; the constricting alleys of Beit Romano, deep in the heart of Hebron, is not my normal comfort zone. As I drove deeper into the largely Arab populated villages, I passed the occasional Israeli soldiers on guard in their guard-posts, and I had the sense they thought I was mad. But I was on a mission. Our youngest son Yair, along with his commando squad  of paratroopers, had been sent to spend Shabbat guarding the roads and back alleys of Hebron, and they had a short window in which I could find them all before they headed out for guard duties and patrols. One of the boys’ parents had managed to get and send us all some photos, taken by one of the commanders, of their insane week of combat training in the hot desert sun. One image of Yair carrying a fellow-soldier (who seemed to be twice his size)...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Yom HaZikaron/Yom Ha’atzmaut

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Yom HaZikaron/Yom Ha’atzmaut

Dedicated to the memory of David Golavensas, an Officer in the elite Golani infantry Brigade, killed last summer while fulfilling his duties in Hebron.  It is hard to describe what it takes to be a combat infantry soldier in the Israeli army, but those who succeed in the elite Golani brigade are few and far between. To be chosen from amongst them to be an Officer means you have something special, and David Golavensas was one of those rare few made of that ‘special stuff’ it takes to be a combat officer.  You don’t get drafted to such a role, you have to earn it and you have to be invited to it, and ultimately you have to choose it. First you have to choose to undergo Officer’s course, and then, every day, for seven long months, as an Officer Cadet, you have to choose to find the maximum you have to give to get through Officer’s training.  Even more challenging, if you...
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