Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Who is G-d to Judge? How to Celebrate a Day of Judgment I did not grow up in a religious home but we did go to shul (synagogue) every Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. I remember one Rosh Hashanah the rabbi got up and said, “We’re about to open the ark. It is customary for the congregation to stand while the ark is open, but it will be open for quite some time. So if you get tired, you can sit down.” I thought to myself, “I only come here twice a year, so if standing and going through a little torture is going to take away my sins, then why not stand for the whole thing?” When they opened the ark, everyone stood and then everyone sat. I was the only one who remained standing. I figured, how long could it last, five minutes, ten minutes? I stood there in terrible pain for an hour and a half, figuring ‘OK. I guess...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Tisha B'Av: Does G-d Cry? On Tisha B'Av, the ninth day of the Hebrew month of Av (which this year begins at nightfall August 13), Jews mourn over the loss of the Holy Temple, Beis HaMikdash in Hebrew, that stood in Jerusalem. On this day, the Babylonians destroyed the First Temple in 586 B.C.E., and the Romans demolished the Second Temple in 70 C.E.. Each Tisha B'Av, we have a custom to read Eicha, or the Book of Lamentations, a painful account of the prophet Jeremiah's intense sorrow over the destruction of the First Temple. In addition to reading the Eicha, we abstain from any physical pleasures the entire day. We are not allowed to eat, drink, wash our bodies for enjoyment or wear leather shoes. A little less-known Halacha, or Jewish law, is that we are not allowed to say hello to each other. This law is perhaps the most difficult for me and yet the most meaningful. In Jerusalem in the...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality by Rav Binny Freedman – Shavuot

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality by Rav Binny Freedman – Shavuot

This week we celebrate the festival of Shavuot, commemorating a moment, thirty-two hundred years ago, when we all stood together, beneath a wind-swept mountain, deep in the Sinai desert. The power of that moment, was that, more than at any other time in our history as a people, we truly became one; one people, experiencing a desire to receive and to share, together. There is a legend about Moses Mendelssohn, the grandfather of the well-known German composer, who was far from being handsome.  Along with a rather short stature, he had a grotesque hunchback.            One day he visited a merchant in Hamburg who had a lovely daughter named Frumtje. Moses fell helplessly in love with her. But Frumtje was repulsed by his misshapen appearance.            When it came time for him to leave, Moses gathered his courage and climbed the stairs to her room to take one last opportunity to speak with her. She was a vision of heavenly beauty, but...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Wonder Bread Tapping the Transformational Power of Faith During the seven days of Passover we are required to eat only Matza-- unleavened bread that looks somewhat like a cracker and is made of just water and flour. The Matza reminds us that we were slaves to the Egyptians who treated us as if we were subhuman and fed us brittle and tasteless unleavened bread. The Matza is therefore referred to as the “bread of affliction.” However, Matza also reminds us of how we left Egypt in an astounding record time, faster than it takes dough to leaven into bread. How can Matza be both a sign of our painful affliction and our joyous freedom? The Zohar, the Kabbalah classic, refers to Matza as the “Bread of Faith.” In other words, when we eat the Matza, we are internalizing the message of faith that it embodies. That message is -- know that even if you hit rock bottom and feel far and alienated from G-d, G-d is right there to help you and free you from...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Passover

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Passover

What makes a leader? This is a question that consumes countless books, seminars and leadership training programs in countless Universities and business training models. But it’s worth noting that there are two different types of leaders. One, the more commonly considered, is the type of person who leaps forward under challenging circumstances, who inspires others less bold to follow behind. In fact, I have a vivid memory of hearing just that at the end of the IDF’s Officer training course, from a Commander whom I greatly respected: “The measure of an officer is whether he (or she) can become the man whom others will follow, anywhere…” And yet, there is a second type of leader who accomplishes much more than having others follow behind; he or she inspires others to leap ahead. Such leaders do not lead; they inspire… Such a person was Cantor (Chazzan) Sherwood Goffin, who first taught me to read from the Torah and whose beautiful Shabbat tunes and guitar playing...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Purim

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Purim

Grabbing the Moment  A few years ago, I was privileged to share in a magnificent experience the South African Jewish Community has labelled Sinai Indaba. Five thousand Jews came together in the city of Johannesburg to share and study Torah and there are no words to describe the passion, excitement, warmth and the inspiration we all shared for 24 magnificent hours. One of the speakers, Charlie Harari, shared an idea that really got me thinking:   This coming week we will read the book of Esther and celebrate Purim. It’s interesting that we call the story of Purim the book of Esther, because Esther is a pretty unlikely heroine, to say the least; if there was ever a person not in control of her life, it was Esther. At the start of the book (really the Scroll) of Esther, she seems to have absolutely no will of her own; in fact, her name Esther comes from the Hebrew word seter, which means hidden; she...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Purim: Secrets Behind the Purim Mask Purim celebrates the salvation of the Jews from the wicked Haman's scheme to exterminate all the Jewish men, women, and children living in the Persian empire in the year 357 B.C.E., which essentially meant all the Jews in the world. Some of the commandments of Purim, such as hearing Megillat Esther, which recounts the Purim story, and enjoying a festive meal, are obvious ways to commemorate this deliverance. Other commandments and customs have no apparent connection to what happened on Purim. Why are we required to give charity to the poor, send two food items to a friend, and get so drunk that we do not know the difference between Haman, the villain, and Mordechai, the righteous hero of the story? (This last commandment, I understand, is very rigorously kept in college dorms all year round.) What is behind the customs to dress up in costume and to eat hamentaschen, delicious, sweet tarts named literally, "Haman's...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sukkot and Simchat Torah Celebrating Wholeness, Spontaneity and Anticipation Off to a Right Start The holiday of Sukkot reminds us of the huts of the Israelites as they wandered for forty years in the desert after their miraculous Exodus from Egypt . It would stand to reason, then, that Sukkot should be celebrated right after the holiday of Passover. However, the Talmudic sages explain that since Passover is in the spring, living in the sukkah would not be anything special. It is common to be outside during the warm months of the year. After Yom Kippur, however, when it starts to get cold, people generally take shelter inside. We go outside, only because G-d commands us to do so. Leaving our homes precisely when we are not naturally inclined to do so, internalizes one of the important lessons of Sukkot-G-d is our only true shelter, and we must trust in Him. We often transgress the will of G-d, because we mistakenly think we...
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Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Portion of Ha’azinu

Small Tastings of Torah, Judaism and Spirituality from Rav Binny Freedman – Portion of Ha’azinu

May 4, 2009; Seconds, then minutes; the overturned boat remained upside down in the murky waters of the Yarkon River, trapping the woman who had been energetically rowing moments before; even the air bubbles had ceased…. Incredibly a small crowd of onlookers had gathered along the banks of the narrow river watching and pointing, even exclaiming, yet none seemed willing to brave the waters and attempt to rescue the woman whose life was clearly in danger. It was not a raging river, nor were the waters particularly deep, nor wide; rather it was well known how polluted these waters were and none seemed willing to risk the potential illness that might result from entering the waters, even for such a worthy cause. Finally, nearly four minutes after the woman had capsized, Avi Toibin, a sixty-two-year-old passerby, apparently realizing the stakes and ignoring the danger, jumped in and managed to wrest the woman’s now limp body from beneath the unforgiving waters allowing...
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Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Sparks – by Rabbi David Aaron

Getting the Forgiveness You Want and Need Yom Kippur is all about love and forgiveness. It's about how we are always inseparably close to G-d. On Yom Kippur we get a glimpse of ourselves, our choices and our relationship to G-d from another perspective--G-d's perspective. This is the transformational power of Yom Kippur that makes it into a Day of Atonement and forgiveness. There is a cryptic verse in the Book of Psalms (139:16), which, the Sages say, refers to Yom Kippur:  The days were formed, and one of them is His. Every day of the year we see the world from our perspective but there is one day --   G-d’s day -- when we get a glimpse of the way the world looks from His perspective and everything changes in light of that perspective. On Yom Kippur we see it all from the perspective of the World to Come where you get to see the whole picture. The Talmud teaches that in this...
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